“So how many kids do you have?” he said, hardly cracking a smile. About halfway through buzzing my hair, my husband knew just the thing to lighten the mood.
In October, we will celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary. There is not a day I don’t thank God for bringing this man into my life.
I did it. Well, Don did it.
And just like that, the agonizing is over. My hair is gone. I’m happy.
Yes, there were tears. It was emotional at first. But it quickly became freeing. I didn’t let cancer decide when I would lose all my hair.
Time to move on.
Tribal Life 
You look happy and I like your wig, sorry I do t know her name 💕
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No name yet – I’ll keep you posted!
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So happy to hear it was freeing! The wig is beautiful but you also rock a shaved head 💕 Great job Barber Don!
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Thanks Donna!
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Love the wig and I agree with Donna – you do rock a shaved head. You are beautiful inside and out!
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Thanks Deb!
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I would shave my head in solidarity but I have the worst ears. Don is a keeper and I am so glad you have each other. Think of the savings in shampoo/conditioner!!!!!!! Proud of you and a little teary reading this….. ley’s Move Forward!
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Onward!
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Beautiful, brave Linda 💕
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Thanks Elaine!
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So glad you made an event of it and that Don was your barber. Great job, Don. The wig is lovely and you look beautiful in it.
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Thanks Beth!
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Yes! You are driving the bus!
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All I can do is try!
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I LOVE your wig. It’s looks so good!
Stay strong!
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Thanks Pam!
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I’m glad for you that you took control and didn’t let cancer decide for you. You are beautiful.
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Thanks Nicole – I’ve learned so much from all of you!
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I think it looks great sis. And I’ve never loved Don more.
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Thanks David. I knew he was a keeper.
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Being in a control has never been so inspiring…………….you have taken it to a higher level and with such grace…………..Your husband is amazing……..
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Thank goodness I have you for wig adjustments. You’re my secret weapon!
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You look beautiful. Love your attitude and smile. That barber is definitely a keeper. ❤️
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July, thank you. And yes, I think i’ll keep him!
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Cougina Linda, beautiful, strong and timeless; your essence shines thru whether your wearing a stylish wig or your new sleek shaved scalp.
Shine on Bella cougina!!!🌟😘
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Thanks April. I’m blessed to have you having my back!
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Ditto cougina!!!❤️✨
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Ps. Your barber is the coolest!❤️
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And as you know, I have a pretty cool stylist too!
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Yes, you do!!! Love you Susan!!❤️
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You look radiant! With or without the wig.
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Thank you!
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I think you look fantastic in your wig! Can’t wait to learn of your name choice. My Emily has shaved her head twice, both times when she was feeling pretty down, but somehow it served to help her feel free in a way, and confident, and real. There’s something to be said for acknowledging the vulnerable feeling and then recognizing as it turns to a feeling of empowerment somehow! Maybe your wig name should be Wonder Woman!
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Thanks Carolyn. I decided to pause on the wig name for a bit. The last week or two has been pretty emotional. I’ve survived the first day walking into work, and now feel like everything else is cake. I do plan on revisiting the name though soon. There are some strong contenders. Mostly I’m very grateful that people care enough to be so thoughtful in their responses.
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Hey Cancer,
Go F yourself!
Your dealing with the wrong person here, our sister is a warrior!!
Sincerely,
Uncle Michael Motorcycle
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Right you are Mike!
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Love the line, and the fact that you have this man next to you. xx
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Suzanne, he had me with his humor on our first date. He’s not a nonstop funny guy, but he listens and knows when to lighten the mood. He is one of the blessings of my life.
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You are wise beyond your years in how to handle this. You and Don both rock! The wig looks great! Sending healing thoughts your way. You got this!
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Thanks Diane. Part of the unpaid benefit to working at a retirement community is the wisdom I gain from the wonderful older people I meet. I’m trying to put it to good use!
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